Book Recommendations for Grievers
In the immediacy of loss, I recommend reading a romance or fiction novel that touches on the type of loss you are navigating. You could call this parallel processing—a way of processing aspects of what you are living through in your own life by way of someone else’s.
You can’t educate yourself out of loss, or out of grief, which is why I recommend waiting a bit before delving into educational material. So while you are going through it, now is the time to approach with a light touch.
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Type of Loss
- CFS 1
- CPTSD 3
- Cancer 1
- Child Loss 2
- Childhood Friend's Death 1
- Chronic Illness 1
- Deathloss 9
- Deathworker 1
- Divorce 2
- Existential Pain 1
- Family Dysfunction 2
- Father Loss 7
- Grandparent Loss 1
- Hate Crime 1
- House Fire 1
- Husband Loss 2
- Identity 1
- Infertility 2
- Infidelity 2
- LGBTQIA+ 1
- Law Enforcement Loss 1
- Loneliness 2
- Loss of Home 1
- Mother Loss 3
- Mother Wound 4
- Multiples: Twins 1
- Neglect 1
- Race 1
- Regret 1
- Shadowloss 16
- Suicide 1
- When Professionals Grieve 1
- Widow 4
- Wildfire 1
After Tova Sullivan’s husband died, she began working the night shift at the Sowell Bay Aquarium, mopping floors and tidying up. Keeping busy has always helped her cope, which she’s been doing since her eighteen-year-old son, Erik, mysteriously vanished on a boat in Puget Sound over thirty years ago.
Tova becomes acquainted with curmudgeonly Marcellus, a giant Pacific octopus living at the aquarium. Marcellus knows more than anyone can imagine but wouldn’t dream of lifting one of his eight arms for his human captors—until he forms a remarkable friendship with Tova.
Ever the detective, Marcellus deduces what happened the night Tova’s son disappeared. And now Marcellus must use every trick his old invertebrate body can muster to unearth the truth for her before it’s too late.
Shelby Van Pelt’s debut novel is a gentle reminder that sometimes taking a hard look at the past can help uncover a future that once felt impossible.