Book Recommendations for Grievers
In the immediacy of loss, I recommend reading a romance or fiction novel that touches on the type of loss you are navigating. You could call this parallel processing—a way of processing aspects of what you are living through in your own life by way of someone else’s.
You can’t educate yourself out of loss, or out of grief, which is why I recommend waiting a bit before delving into educational material. So while you are going through it, now is the time to approach with a light touch.
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Type of Loss
- CFS 1
- CPTSD 3
- Cancer 1
- Car Accident 1
- Child Loss 2
- Childhood Friend's Death 1
- Chronic Illness 1
- Deathloss 11
- Deathworker 1
- Divorce 3
- Existential Pain 1
- Family Dysfunction 2
- Father Loss 8
- Grandparent Loss 1
- Hate Crime 1
- House Fire 1
- Husband Loss 2
- Identity 1
- Infertility 2
- Infidelity 2
- LGBTQIA+ 1
- Law Enforcement Loss 1
- Loneliness 2
- Loss of Home 1
- Mother Loss 4
- Mother Wound 5
- Multiples: Twins 1
- Neglect 1
- Race 1
- Regret 1
- Shadowloss 16
- Suicide 1
- When Professionals Grieve 1
- Widow 6
- Wildfire 1
From the bestselling author of Funny You Should Ask comes an inspiring romance novel about honoring the past, living in the present, and loving for the future.
In her small Montana hometown, Lauren Parker has assumed a few different roles: teenage hell-raiser, sister of superstar Gabe Parker, and most recently, tragically widowed single mother. She’s never cared much about labels or what people thought of her, but dealing with her grief over the loss of her husband, Spencer, has slowly revealed that she’s adrift in her own life.
Then she meets the devilishly handsome actor Ben Walsh on the set of her brother’s new movie. They have instant chemistry, and Lauren realizes that it has been far too long since someone has really and truly seen her. Her rebellious spirit spurs her to dive headfirst into her desire, but when a sexy encounter becomes something more, Lauren finds herself balancing old roles and new possibilities.
There’s still plenty to contend with: small-town rumors, the complications of Ben’s fame, and her daughter’s unpredictable moods. An unexpected fling seemed simple at the time—so when did everything with Ben get so complicated? And is there enough room in his life for the woman Lauren wants to be? Alternating between Lauren’s past with Spencer and her present with Ben, Totally and Completely Fine illuminates what it means to find life-changing love and be true to oneself in the process.