Is Your Grief Terminology Current and Accurate?

Thanatology itself is a pretty young field, and so too is the way we talk about grief.

Well, let me elaborate—humans have always talked about grief, we just may not have called it that—called it grief. The word grief didn’t exist until about the year 1200. But do you think people weren’t experiencing grief just because the word didn’t exist before then? They most definitely were!

To this day, clinicians, researchers and other professionals are not only studying grief and its impact, they are actively furthering the way we talk about grief. This post is meant to succinctly summarize where we are today, with the caveat that language around grief and loss will most definitely continue to evolve and change.

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Special thanks to La Shanda Sugg, LPC who reviewed these slides. You can find La Shanda at thelaborsoflove.com

Sources and Further Reading

Dougy Center—Resources for Counselors and Helping Professions: https://www.dougy.org/grief-support-resources/supporters-of-grievers/counselors-and-helping-professionals

Dougy Center—Becoming Grief Informed: https://www.dougy.org/assets/uploads/Becoming-Grief-Informed_A-Call-to-Action.pdf

These Recent Studies Related to the “Pandemic Grief Scale”: https://scholar.google.com/scholar?cites=12671129025830681351&as_sdt=4000005&sciodt=0,18&hl=en

Bereavement and Grief During the COVID-19 Pandemic: https://www.psychiatrist.com/pcc/depression/bereavement-and-grief-during-covid/

Validation of the new DSM-5-TR criteria for prolonged grief disorder and the PG-13-Revised (PG-13-R) scale: https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1002/wps.20823

Grief: A Brief History of Research on How Body, Mind, and Brain Adapt: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6844541/

Cole Imperi

Cole Imperi is a triple-certified thanatologist, a two-time TedX speaker, and one of America’s experts on death, dying and grief. She is best known for her work pioneering the fields of Thanabotany and Deathwork (which includes Death Companioning) and through her development of Shadowloss, Shadowlight and Dremains. Cole is the founder of the School of American Thanatology, which has students from 20 countries across 12 timezones. Cole has worked as a chaplain-thanatologist in a jail, mortuary college professor, crematory operator, hospice volunteer, grief support group leader for children as young as 3 to adults, and served on the board of a green burial startup. Cole served as the first female Board President of the 178-year-old Historic Linden Grove Cemetery & Arboretum in Covington, Kentucky, works with death-related businesses through her consulting firm, Doth, and publishes death and loss-related content. Her forthcoming book, A Guide to Your Grief, will be published by Kids Can Press in 2024.

https://coleimperi.com
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